This is for those who felt a little jealous of my "All I Want Is You" post!
Yeah, that was solely for my crush, but friendship is above all this. It is one of that pure relation which does not need any definition. I treasure you all and will always cherish our friendship, no matter we are in contact or not.
Friendship is one of its kind. You can be friends with anyone, your parents, siblings, mates or a stranger whom you met 2 days ago. Friends don't judge on how you react or what you do because they understand you. You can share your heart out with them and they won't question you.
Some say, "I can make friends easily". But, I don't think that it is possible. You can know about someone but you cannot be friends easily. Until and unless there is a mutual understanding between the two, friendship doesn't exist. They are just two people, who know little about each other.
Some say, "I can make friends easily". But, I don't think that it is possible. You can know about someone but you cannot be friends easily. Until and unless there is a mutual understanding between the two, friendship doesn't exist. They are just two people, who know little about each other.
Friendship is when you care for each other, understand each other, and still, you do things which irritates him/her. Even if you don't talk for days, when you reconnect, you start back from where you left off. To be always there when ever they need you, is not friendship but to understand when they need you and to stand by them is friendship for me.
"Bulane par to bahut aa jate hain,
Jo bin bulaye sath nibha jaye, vo hi yaad reh jate hain"
Friendship is a precious gem which is very rare to find nowadays and if you have a true one, I would say, keep it alive always. A text daily is not the mantra for friendship but a true connection when you are with each other is only needed.
Sometimes with your group of college friends, you feel disconnected while with some other classmate of yours, you can connect easily. And you start finding yourself with another bunch of people. That is when people move on to new people and discover new friends. Because if you cannot involve with one, you need someone else, which is in general human nature. Otherwise, it will lead you to emotional disturbance affecting your work.
Once you have found a real one, you won't crave for more but be a true friend for one and you will find many for yourself.
Connect with your true friends whom you have not contacted for long and make them realize that they are special for you.
Keep smiling and believe in yourself π
Sometimes with your group of college friends, you feel disconnected while with some other classmate of yours, you can connect easily. And you start finding yourself with another bunch of people. That is when people move on to new people and discover new friends. Because if you cannot involve with one, you need someone else, which is in general human nature. Otherwise, it will lead you to emotional disturbance affecting your work.
Once you have found a real one, you won't crave for more but be a true friend for one and you will find many for yourself.
Connect with your true friends whom you have not contacted for long and make them realize that they are special for you.
Keep smiling and believe in yourself π
I have a different opinion on this, we don't connect to people we connect to the party which looks like ourselves:
ReplyDeleteIt could be ourselves in terms of our expectation ( fantasy or infatuations fall in this category ) , existence ( friends or colleagues all mutual relationships ) or emotions ( love hate relation ships ).
A lot to eloborate but don't want to blog on your blog ... :) stopping the comment for now.
Would surely love to read your opinion, pen it down soon!π
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