Monday 12 March 2018

Does LOOKS Matter?

We were in a serious and healthy relationship (as I would prefer to say) for more than 2 years. Then one day he broke up with me, saying that, "Tum moti ho, tumse na ho payega." And then I came out of my dream world, I started exploring places and people. The world holds much more than what we think of! There are some who think about how you look, and some about how you behave!


Anyone can write and tell quotes to others, but to actually implement them in your life is very difficult. We say, look for inner beauty and not the body or outer looks, but do people follow it in real??

Does your body shape or looks matters so much that it overshadows all other beauty of a person's life? Don't we still have crushes just based on their beauty? Is it mandatory for a person in a relationship to look attractive?

Most of the people will say no while reading this, but even they do the same in life. I consider, being fit and healthy is more precious than being a girl with size 0. Focus on your body flexibility, increase your stamina, be independent for physical activities and have the strength to punch the person who judges you with your body shape.

What is the need of slim size when you can't do any physical activity!?! What's the need for such a body when you can't go out to your fav restaurant and have your fav food?

If a person is fat, doesn't mean they eat too much or they don't have the energy for physical tasks. Sometimes the best of the people who actually enjoy life and follow their dreams, are chubby and fatty. Moreover, a chubby kid is good to play with while a chubby adult is being ignored. Why so? Aren't they cute? Or being adult and mature doesn't allow them to be cute?

There are people who need to work on their habits and routines to avoid getting fat because that will increase chances of diseases, but until and unless a person is fit and healthy, it shouldn't matter if size is 0 or 8, or there are 6 packs or 8 packs.

Think about it a little, get a chubby love for yourself and then see, how your life and world around you change! Enjoy life and food at BBQ 😉

Keep smiling and believe in yourself 😊

8 comments:

  1. I appreciate your writing. Well written and I too believe this too but as u say implementing in life is too difficult, it is. It's hard to bring change.

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    1. Thank you for your kind words. Let's start the change from ourselves and not judge others with their looks and shape 😊

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  2. Keep up the good work....much appreciated :)

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  3. I love honest blogs....... However truth unfolds ourselves manytimes in many layers. What we believed yesterday had changed today and what we believe today will change tommorow.

    So far we enjoy our life and respect contrary opinion with dignity it should be fine.

    Personally I believe there is an inner beauty which should be seen and cherished rather than anything else.

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    1. Yes, inner beauty should be cherished and people have started thinking about this.

      But still lot many people needs to understand this and accept others.

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