Thursday, 13 September 2018

Appreciate and Accept

Sometimes when people leave us, we realize their importance and value. Is it mandatory for a person to leave to make us realize this? Why can't we appreciate all those who are trying to make an effort to stay in our lives on a regular basis?

I am not asking you to call or greet them daily, but we can also make an effort to make them feel special the way they make us feel. There are people out there who won't leave you and stay with you either physically or in memories, but it's up to you to identify them and hold on to them, no matter what they ask for. Because they are more important than anything else.

Everything takes time to mature and you are allowed to take your time and identify such people in your life. But the process shouldn't be so long that the person leaves you, not only for the time being but from this materialistic world. That will only leave you with the option of mourning and nothing else.

I wish if I could reverse back time to a few days back. Those few days can be a few hours or a few days or a few months or even few years. Sometimes we wish so strongly if we could reverse back time with the maturity and learning of today. But that's not possible. The only thing left after time has passed is to regret what you have done and not done or try not to think about it and make things better for yourself as well as for others.

Time will teach you everything, accept it and follow it and always believe whatever happens is for good. Do not carry regret for a lifetime because that won't help you achieve anything.

PS: This one was a shorter post because I am not able to find fair enough words to justify the post. But because this is something my inner conscience asked me I had to write. Sorry for the inconvenience caused.

Keep smiling and believe in yourself 😊

8 comments:

  1. Mtlb tmko esa kch krna chaiye jisse mje spcl feel ho 😁

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    1. This post is actually for you Mam :)

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    2. HeinπŸ€”
      Mera naam to kahi tha ni
      Na mje pta chala ki ye mere liye tha πŸ˜…

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    3. Ae mje jatayi huyi bat smjh ni aati... bina jataye kya smjh aayega πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. Read between the lines πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

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  2. . Is it mandatory for a person to leave to make us realize this? Why can't we appreciate all those who are trying to make an effort to stay in our lives on a regular basis?

    Beautifully said and I hope will be religiously followed. It starts with Mom n Dad and goes on to eternity. In fact sometimes I feel there's so much already around and if that's enough why mind should wander to find new things, but it does and for a good reason , new people either bring interesting things in life or greater affection to existing loved ones.

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    1. Agree! And that's the circle of life, to add new transformations.

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