Deserving Efforts

Ignoring the things around is the best solution for everything, whether its about Corona or food or safety or any relation of life. Once you have learnt this talent of being ignorant along with sweetness of honey in it, you will play your best part at everything.

You don't get any specials because you don't deserve it. And you do it for others because obviously they are the best and they deserve it. Fir upar see, the simplest reason to not do anything is, "kuch alag karke hi btaya jata hai kya ki koi special hai! Hai toh hai, usme alag se kya hi karna!" Sahi baat hai, koi aur kuch karde toh vo samne wale ki marzi hai, humne toh kuch kaha nhi tha aisa karne ko.. aur khud toh kuch krenge nhi kyunki hume toh pasand hai nhi aisa kuch bhi karna.

Then people say that they are supporting you, Yes thank you so much for your emotional and mental support but vo bhi tabhi hota hai, when you ask for it, khud se toh vo bhi nhi hota hai. Kisi baat pe toh consistent ho. Vo support hi humesha ho toh bhi kafi rahega.

So from my side the reason above is enough to say thank you even if you talk to me a bit, because kuch log vo bhi nhi karte hain. Unhe lagta hai, din bhar samne hi to hain to kya hi baat karni hai/hogi. Unke hisaab se baat tab ki jati hai jab aap thode door ho ya kuch bahut important ho, basss, Otherwise, you can spend more than 10 days without uttering a single word to the person who is sleeping next to you everyday. (Jab baat hi nhi kre koi, toh aur kuch toh kya hi bol sakte hain)

Aur fir aata hai logon ka biased nature, when they make you feel ki aapki unhe zarurat nhi hai apni life me, you are only an extra player in their life. Kyunki unke paas har kaam ke liye, har zarurat ke liye koi na koi hai, like sabki maa toh apne baccho ka dhyan rakh hi leti hain, papa ka apna role hota hai, masti maze ke liye friends and relatives hain hi.. Aur kya chahiye life me... Jab in sabse fursat mile toh khud ke liye bhi to insaan ko time chahiye, "self time", you know, that's very important to get refresh... Uske baad jake agar mood sahi hai and kuch important hai, tab jake number ata hai us insaan ka, who is sleeping next to you because vo toh 24*7 sath hi hai na, toh use sab apne aap pta hai and kuch baat karne ko hai hi nhi fir.

Aur fir kuch log aapko ye bhi suggest krenge, that you should fight for yourself, ask for this and that. But, I consider that you shouldn't ask each and everytime. Once or twice is okay to make others understand about your needs, but if they still can't (obviously because of their some very important and understandable reasons), set them free. You can't beg everytime for your deserved time. You can't beg everytime for your feelings.

If you are special for someone, they will make every effort to make you feel so. They will not wait for one special day to do anything. Their small deeds everyday will make you feel that they care for you and think about you. And you should be considerate enough to acknowledge and appreciate their efforts.

Har khushi paiso ya credit card se nhi aati hai, ki chalo shopping, jo lena hai, le lo. Obviously, who care and need your time, don't want your money, vo toh uske paas bhi hai, but you only need a person who holds a special position in your life, is a priority for you always, different from all other relations and for whom you are special as well.

Keep smiling and believe in yourself 😊

P.S.: It is a compilation of things happening around and so many stories that I have been reading on Internet since last few weeks. Do not send me texts considering this as my own story 😂😂