Tuesday 7 January 2020

The Golden Period

Its been 7 months into this new committed relationship and just 1 month to rename to a married one!

#Excited #Nervous #Anxiety #HappyHeart #ConfusedMind #MessedUp

So many feelings altogether!

But it has been one exciting journey that is different from all other times.

Initially, we thought why people call it a "Golden Period" / "Special Times". It will be as normal as any other phases of life. It's just that you have one more person in life apart from your best friends and family to call and talk. But you slowly realize that it won't be the way you want to, it has its own pace and uniqueness.

Sometimes, you don't know how the person will react or respond, but to start anything new and unknown, you take risks. There have been times when we fought, we had cold wars, we had emotional bursts, and what not! But we stood for each other and believe me, that is the only strength during this "Golden Period". You understand their thoughts and their commitments.

You are in a relationship with a person, you hardly know but then only you explore the personality of another person to know their strengths and weaknesses and habits. You go through a whole new personality of yourself as well.

"No human being is perfect"

But

"To adapt yourself to someone's imperfections is golden"

Also, living in different cities will give you another experience of a long-distance relationship and makes you believe that sometimes distance does increase the closeness in a relationship, where you always have this urge of meeting your person in person and spend some good time together.

We'll be soon married and that's for a lifetime and this "Bachelor yet Engaged" phase won't come back. Whether you accept or not, things will change, if not drastically, slightly it will happen. And obviously, you cannot miss any chance to enjoy such a lifetime opportunity.

So, all those people out there, who have been through this phase, can surely understand this and those who are still in the waiting queue, you'll soon understand and enjoy and experience.

Keep smiling and believe in yourself 😊

4 comments:

  1. you are super sweet person.. just take decisions carefully and i am happy for you if you are.. tc..

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    2. Thanks for reading blog! May I know who is this?

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